Message to White Allies from A Black Anti-Racism Expert: You’re Doing It Wrong
The Dalai Lama shows us a better way.
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11 min readApr 27, 2020
Racism is harmful. Divisive white allyship is harmful too.
Recently, the Dalai Lama called on people to think beyond this tragic moment and reflect on what it teaches us about the nature of existence. Highlighting the interconnectedness of humanity, he argued the “pandemic serves as a warning that only by coming together…will we meet the unprecedented magnitude of the challenges we face.”
As a black man who teaches white people how to be more effective anti-racists, His Holiness’s words resonated. White allies tell me they hear many comments in all-white settings that show the persistent racial divide in this country. Example of these statements include:
- “If an innocent person just acts respectfully towards cops, they will be treated fairly.”
- “People of color don’t do as well as whites economically because they don’t have a good work ethic.”
- “I’m tired of this talk about so-called ‘white privilege’. Everyone gets what they deserve. Racism is just an excuse.”
These statements trouble me deeply. At the same, I am deeply troubled by what I hear from white allies…
